
We're all smiles here*, but it was a touch-and-go, fraught night. It is, perhaps, enough to say that tonight, Julie and Joe did not read books before Joe went to bed. It was just one of those nights where words fail (and failed--quite literally and all the way around) and by bath time, we had one little boy, naked and sprawled on the bath mat, crying, and two parents trying valiantly to ignore him until he had stopped, one of them hoping desperately he would do so quickly so she wouldn't have to make good on what she'd said earlier--i.e. if we didn't get this bath rolling soon because Joe was on the floor crying, we wouldn't have time to read books. But you know, when you're two and a half and someone hasn't done the bath toys just so (among other things), it can take some time to pull one's self together, and by the time Our Hero had, it was well past bedtime. He began to pitch a fresh fit when Julie said we didn't have time to read books tonight, but then, rather suddenly, he just stopped. Julie asked him to hold her hand and walk to bed, and he did, and that was that. He fell asleep pretty quickly and no wonder after all that crying, and a bonk on his head from the mean old bathroom floor during the start of the temper tantrum in the bathroom. Julie of course started crying as soon as she'd shut the door behind her. Reading with Joe at night, and Clara in the morning, are two of the very best pieces of her day. Lately, Joe has been all about the Olivia books--especially Olivia and the Missing Toy--and Julie sort of loves Olivia, too. The two and a half year old in Julie's heart is in pieces, bawling on the bath mat.
*When Julie got Joe out of the bath, she told Joe he looked like Obi-Wan Kenobi. Joe solemnly told her no. So she said, "Joe-b Wan Kenobi?" to which Joe solemnly replied, "I'm Joe Ekkers." Julie said it was a good thing as that meant he was her son that she loved very much! And then she hoisted him up without managing to bonk anyone's anything on anything in the smallest room in the house, and get Neaky from his perch on top of the toilet, and then there the three of us were in the mirror and Julie said, "Isn't that a picture," and we decided to get Ted to take one.